Better Never to Have Been

Better Never to Have Been

The Harm of Coming Into Existence

Book - 2006
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"Most people believe that they were either benefitted or at least not harmed by being brought into existence. Thus, if they ever do reflect on whether they should bring others into existence - rather than having children without even thinking about whether they should - they presume that they do them no harm. Better Never to Have Been challenges these assumptions. David Benatar argues that coming into existence is always a serious harm. Although the good things in one's life make one's life go better than it otherwise would have gone, one could not have been deprived by their absence if one had not existed. Those who never exist cannot be deprived. However, by coming into existence one does suffer quite serious harms that could not have befallen on had one not come into existence. Drawing on the relevant psychological literature, the author shows that there are a number of well-documented features of human psychology that explain why people systematically overestimate the quality of their lives and why they are thus resistant to the suggestion that they were seriously harmed by being brought into existence."--Jacket.
Publisher: Oxford :, Clarendon Press ;, New York :, Oxford University Press,, 2006.
ISBN: 9780199549269
Branch Call Number: 128 BE
Characteristics: xi, 237 pages : illustrations ; 21 cm


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Recommended by Kate: Earnest, provocative and surprisingly funny, this book on non-existence is one you won’t regret being alive to read!

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Sep 23, 2018

Intriguing, well written book with arguments for (or against) the existence of humans. Good for discussion, makes you think while reading.

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Mar 20, 2013

Very academic writing on such an interesting issue: is it a kindness or an imposition to bring a child into existence? The title tells us the author's position, and I agree. I've born and raised beautiful kids who've grown up to be wonderful people, but life is hard for them. Their pain stabs my heart because they don't deserve such bum deals. The common piety of my youth was one's responsibility to give the gift of life, and to be ever grateful to our parents for having born us. And yet no one denied that life was hard and full of pain. Time to get real.


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